Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

At Caligula New York, all guests are expected to adhere strictly to our rules and standards of conduct. Caligula NYC is a private, upscale social club where couples and singles can socialize, connect, dance, enjoy drinks, and explore further only when all parties are on the same page.

Any form of disrespectful behavior will result in immediate removal from the club.

For privacy and security reasons, we do not publish our exact address nor provide it over the phone.
To receive the address, guests must make a reservation or contact us directly.

For planning purposes, Caligula NYC is located in Astoria, NY 11105, just minutes from Manhattan by car or subway, and conveniently close to major highways. There is ample legal street parking available.

We are currently open Thursday through Sunday.
Hours may vary depending on the event. Please refer to the Events page for specific dates and times.

Admission pricing varies based on the type of event and promoter.
Please review the details listed on the specific event you wish to attend for accurate pricing.

Yes. All first-time guests are required to make a reservation.

While members are encouraged to make reservations, they are not required to do so, provided they:

  • Pay the appropriate entrance fee

  • Adhere to all rules for that specific event

Single male members must be accompanied by a female at all times when attending couples-only events.

Unless otherwise specified for themed or specialty events (such as toga parties, bikini/beach parties, Halloween, etc.), the following dress code applies:

Our goal is to maintain a sexy yet relaxed atmosphere. All guests must be clean, neat, and well-groomed.

Not permitted:

  • High-top sneakers, work boots, sweats, or running suits

  • Baseball caps, bandanas, or doo-rags (must be removed and stored in a locker if worn upon arrival)

Permitted:

  • Fedoras and dress hats

  • Dress jeans or shorts (must be worn properly at the waist at all times)

  • Men: Collared shirts are preferred; sleeveless T-shirts are not allowed outside of play areas

  • Lingerie and fetish wear are welcome

Caligula NYC reserves the right to deny entry or remove guests who do not comply with the dress code. Admission fees will be forfeited in such cases.

Membership is established on your first visit to the club.

We accept select memberships, including:

  • SLS

  • SDC

  • Kasidie

  • Club Amante’s

  • Role Play AC

  • Miami Velvet FL

  • Trapeze Atlanta

Please contact us in advance to confirm whether your membership is accepted.

Yes. The following are provided at no charge:

  • Soda, water, juice

  • Ice and cups

Typically available:

  • Coke or Pepsi

  • Diet Coke or Diet Pepsi

  • Sprite

  • Ginger Ale

  • Club Soda

  • Tonic

  • Orange, Cranberry, and Pineapple juice

If you prefer a specific juice (e.g., grapefruit juice), you are welcome to bring your own.
Red Bull is available for purchase.

Where Desire Meets Discretion

A private, upscale social club for couples and select singles to connect, explore, and experience true freedom in a refined, no-pressure environmen